January 21, 2025

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A JUBILEE PRAYER BASED ON SCRIPTURE AND THE POPE FRANCIS BULL OF INDICTION OF THE ORDINARY JUBILEE OF THE YEAR 2025 By Fr Emil Milat

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Powered By EmbedPress A JUBILEE PRAYER BASED ON SCRIPTURE AND THE POPE FRANCIS BULL OF INDICTION OF THE ORDINARY JUBILEE OF THE YEAR 2025 By Fr Emil Milat   Heavenly Father Thank you for this Sacred Jubilee Year of Hope.  A time of greater intensity in the life of Grace where liberation is proclaimed according to your Word Jesus. (Leviticus 25:1-22). Where you command we return to our ancestral property. Jesus became incarnate to raise this grace (Isaiah 61:1-3), to the level of Spirit, so we can all return not to a physical inheritance but our true homeland- that life of grace as Sons and Daughters of God. The life lost by Adam and Eve in the ancient Garden. We pray for this return.   Thank you for this year of rest (Matt 11:28-30), Jesus said come to me all you who are burdened, we ask for a year of rest.  The Jubilee multiplies past prayers, where the prayers sown in the field of grace can produce abundance for the next two years (or more). We ask that the prayers of our Holy Catholic Church in the Eucharistic become an outpouring of Grace for this year and next. A flood drawing and sweeping us in the Ark of Peter to a full return into the Sacred Heart of Jesus. We repent of our debts of sin- where we have exploited others or neglected our own inner life with the Holy Spirit. We forgive anyone who is debt to us.   As the Holy Door was opened in Rome, by the Pope who has the keys of Peter, may our wills open to the Holy Door of your Divine Will being done on earth as in heaven, by the Redemptive merits of Jesus Christ’s death on the Cross; which this Jubilee recalls. For Jesus is the true “door” (Jn 10:7.9) of our salvation. We were reconciled to God through his death and saved by his life” (Rom 5:19).  As we set out on a deeper Pilgrimage of faith this year. We have already crossed the threshold of two millennia from the birth of Jesus Christ in the year 2000, and received the grace of mercy from the Extraordinary Jubilee in 2016. Now in this new Jubilee, may this Holy Year guide our steps towards the 2033 anniversary of the redemption won by the passion, death and resurrection of the Lord Jesus. The Jubilee is a new freedom from slavery, may we be free from worldly strongholds that keep our eyes on empty desires. May this 1700 anniversary of the Council of Nicaea (which preserved the Church’s unity, in proclaiming the full divinity of Jesus Christ and his consubstantiality with you His the Father) release a new encounter with the divinity of Christ. Finally may the Immaculate Heart of Mary triumph in a deeper way, as she brings to birth a deeper fullness in the Body of Christ through the Holy Spirit. We unite with all the Rosaries and prayer in the Marian shrines this year. Maybe we experience a harbinger of new heavens and a new earth (cf. 2 Pet 3:13), where men and women will dwell in justice and harmony, in joyful expectation of the fulfilment of the Lord’s promises. Let us even now be drawn to this hope! May the way we live our lives say to others: “Hope in the Lord! Hold firm, take heart and hope in the Lord!” (Ps 27:14).

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From the Manger to the Magi: 10 Ways to Celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas

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The presents have been unwrapped, the carols have been sung, and the joyful Mass of Christmas Day has come and gone. But wait—Christmas isn’t over yet! The Church gives us 12 glorious days to continue celebrating, right up to the Feast of the Epiphany (January 6). Between the manger and the Magi, there’s a whole season of joy, reflection, and faith to embrace. Here are some meaningful ways to live out this sacred time and truly carry the light of Christmas forward. 1. Keep Your Nativity Scene Up (and Add the Magi!) The story of Christmas doesn’t end at the manger. Let your Nativity scene remain as a reminder of Christ’s birth. If you have Magi figurines, place them further from the stable and move them closer each day—symbolizing their journey to meet Jesus. On the Feast of the Epiphany, place the Magi near the manger to complete the scene. 2. Sing (or Learn) the Christmas Anthems The Christmas season has its own rich treasury of hymns beyond “Silent Night” and “Jingle Bells.” Sing or listen to songs like “What Child Is This?”, “We Three Kings”, and “O Come, All Ye Faithful.” These hymns deepen our understanding of the Incarnation and the joy it brings. 3. Host a Christmas Novena or Prayer Time Gather your family or friends for nine days of prayer between Christmas and Epiphany, focusing on the significance of Christ’s birth. The novena could include reflections on the gifts of the Magi, the role of the Holy Family, and the light of Christ in our lives. If you prefer simplicity, pray the Rosary each evening or read a passage from the Gospels. 4. Bless Your Home with Chalk on Epiphany On January 6, it’s a beautiful tradition to bless your home with chalk. Write this inscription above your door: 20 + C + M + B + 24 The numbers mark the year, and the letters stand for the names of the Magi—Caspar, Melchior, and Balthazar—and also the Latin blessing, “Christus Mansionem Benedicat” (May Christ bless this house). Pray together as a family, asking for God’s blessing and protection throughout the year. 5. Share the Light of Christ Just as the Magi followed the star to find Jesus, we are called to be lights for others. In the days following Christmas, consider acts of kindness: Visit someone who’s lonely. Donate food or clothing to those in need. Write letters or cards to friends and family, reminding them of God’s love. The joy of Christmas isn’t meant to be kept to ourselves—it’s a gift to share! 6. Reflect on the Gifts of the Magi The gifts brought by the Magi—gold, frankincense, and myrrh—carry deep symbolism: Gold: A gift fit for a king, recognizing Christ’s royal authority. Frankincense: A symbol of prayer and divinity, acknowledging Jesus as God. Myrrh: A burial spice, foreshadowing Christ’s sacrifice. Spend time meditating on what you can offer Christ in your life. What “gold” (your treasures), “frankincense” (your prayers), or “myrrh” (your sacrifices) can you bring to Him? 7. Read and Reflect on Scripture Dive into the Christmas story in the Gospels of Matthew and Luke. Reflect on how each figure—Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and the Magi—responded to Christ’s birth. Ask yourself: How can I imitate Mary’s faith and trust? How can I carry the good news like the shepherds? How can I seek Christ with the persistence of the Magi? 8. Host a “12th Night” Gathering On the night before Epiphany (January 5), gather family and friends for a joyful celebration. Share a meal, exchange small gifts, and reflect on the blessings of the Christmas season. You can even bake a King Cake or a similar festive treat, hiding a small token inside. Whoever finds it is crowned “king” or “queen” for the night, symbolizing the Magi’s royal visit to Jesus. 9. Focus on the Holy Family Between Christmas and Epiphany, the Feast of the Holy Family is celebrated (on the Sunday after Christmas). Take this time to pray for your own family and reflect on the virtues of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. Consider creating new family traditions that bring you closer together and honor Christ at the center of your home. 10. End with Gratitude and Renewal As the Feast of the Epiphany approaches, take time to give thanks for the blessings of the season. Reflect on how you’ve encountered Christ in the past year and how you hope to follow Him in the year ahead. Ask for the intercession of the Magi, who searched tirelessly for the Savior, and pray for the courage to pursue Jesus with the same devotion. A Closing Thought The days between Christmas and Epiphany are a reminder that the joy of Christ’s birth isn’t just a one-day event. It’s a season of miracles, grace, and light that we are invited to carry into the world. So, don’t pack away the Nativity just yet—stay in the wonder of Christmas a little longer. Follow the star, like the Magi, and let your journey to Christ continue.

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How We Know Jesus Was Actually Born On 25th December?

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How We Know Jesus Was Born on December 25 Introduction The Catholic Church, since at least the second century, has celebrated the birth of Christ on December 25. However, some argue that Jesus was not born on this date. Let us examine the usual objections to December 25 as Christ’s birthday and provide theological, historical, and scriptural responses to uphold this sacred tradition. Objection 1: December 25 Was Chosen to Replace the Pagan Festival of Saturnalia Claim: Saturnalia, a popular Roman winter festival, was replaced by Christmas to encourage conversions to Christianity. Reply: While Saturnalia celebrated the winter solstice, it was held from December 17 to December 23. The dates do not align with December 25. Thus, the claim that Christmas replaced Saturnalia is not supported by historical evidence. Objection 2: December 25 Was Chosen to Replace the Pagan Holiday Natalis Solis Invicti Claim: December 25 marks the pagan “Birthday of the Unconquered Sun,” established by Emperor Aurelian in AD 274. Reply: Historical records show that Natalis Solis Invicti is not mentioned on December 25 before AD 354, and the same manuscript also lists December 25 as the birth of Christ in Bethlehem. Emperor Julian the Apostate later tried to establish December 25 as a pagan holiday to rival the Christian celebration. Thus, Christmas predates the so-called pagan holiday, and the attempt to replace it came from anti-Christian efforts, not the Church. Objection 3: Shepherds Would Not Be Herding in Winter Claim: Luke’s Gospel describes shepherds in the fields of Bethlehem, which would be unlikely in the cold of winter. Reply: Bethlehem’s climate is mild during December, comparable to modern-day Dallas, Texas, which is still comfortable for outdoor activities. Historical accounts, such as those of Cornelius a Lapide, confirm that shepherds tended their flocks in the fields during late December. Why December 25? I. Scriptural Evidence Using the Bible, we can approximate Christ’s birth date by first determining the birth of John the Baptist. Priestly Courses in the Temple Zechariah, John’s father, served during the “course of Abias” (Luke 1:5). Historical records place this service in late September. John the Baptist was conceived shortly thereafter, around late September. Adding nine months brings John’s birth to late June, aligning with the Church’s celebration on June 24. Jesus’ Birth in Relation to John The Angel Gabriel informed Mary that Elizabeth was six months pregnant at the time of the Annunciation (Luke 1:36). If John was born in late June, adding six months places Christ’s birth in late December. II. Biological Calculations From John the Baptist’s conception in late September to his birth in late June (nine months), and from June to December (another six months), the timeline confirms a late December birth for Christ. The Annunciation on March 25, nine months before December 25, further supports this calculation. III. Testimony from the Blessed Virgin Mary Sacred Tradition asserts that Mary herself provided the date of Christ’s birth. Mothers never forget the details of their children’s births, and the Virgin Mary, knowing her Son was the Messiah, would surely have shared this with the Apostles. IV. Early Church Fathers Pope St. Telesphorus (AD 126–137) established the tradition of Midnight Mass on December 25. St. Hippolytus (AD 170–240) explicitly stated: “The First Advent of our Lord in the flesh occurred…on December 25.” Church Fathers connected March 25 (Annunciation and Crucifixion) to Christ’s birth, affirming the sacred tradition. Conclusion December 25 as Christ’s birthday is rooted in Scripture, tradition, and historical evidence. The Church’s observance of this date predates any pagan celebrations, and early Christians, guided by Mary and the Apostles, commemorated it with devotion. Ultimately, whether or not Christ was born on December 25, the celebration affirms the profound mystery of God becoming man. Let us rejoice in the Light of the World! Read More…

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Advent and the End Times: What Advent Teaches Us About the Second Coming!

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Advent is more than a countdown to Christmas; it’s a call to spiritual renewal, a season of hope, and a time to prepare not just for the celebration of Christ’s birth, but for His glorious return at the end of time. In the hustle of the holiday season, Advent whispers a reminder: Stay awake. Be ready. He is coming. In this article, we’ll explore the deep significance of Advent, its connection to the end times, how the saints approached it, practical ways to prepare, and powerful prayers to guide you through this sacred season.     Here’s a comprehensive and engaging article on the theme of Advent, the end times, and preparation for Christ’s return. It’s packed with information, guides, and prayers, as requested. Advent and the End Times: Preparing for Christ’s Coming Advent is more than a countdown to Christmas; it’s a call to spiritual renewal, a season of hope, and a time to prepare not just for the celebration of Christ’s birth, but for His glorious return at the end of time. In the hustle of the holiday season, Advent whispers a reminder: Stay awake. Be ready. He is coming. In this article, we’ll explore the deep significance of Advent, its connection to the end times, how the saints approached it, practical ways to prepare, and powerful prayers to guide you through this sacred season. 1. Advent: A Time of Double Preparation Advent has a twofold purpose: Remembering the First Coming of Christ – His humble birth in Bethlehem. Anticipating the Second Coming of Christ – His triumphant return at the end of time. The Church, in her wisdom, uses these weeks to immerse us in hope, repentance, and joyful expectation. The Advent wreath, with its four candles, symbolizes the light of Christ breaking into the darkness of the world and our lives. 2. What the Church Teaches About the End Times The Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us: The Final Judgment: Christ will come to judge the living and the dead (CCC 1038-1041). The Signs of the Times: Wars, natural disasters, and moral decay are reminders to stay vigilant (Matthew 24:6-8). Hope, Not Fear: For the faithful, the Second Coming is a moment of joy, as we await the full establishment of God’s Kingdom. Advent is a perfect time to reflect on these truths. Are we living as if Christ could come today? 3. Lessons from the Saints on Advent and the End Times The saints lived Advent every day, always ready to meet the Lord. Here are their insights: Saint Augustine: “The one who loves Christ’s coming is not afraid of it.” Live in a way that you desire His return. Saint Bernard of Clairvaux: Taught about the “three comings of Christ”—in Bethlehem, into our hearts daily, and at the end of time. Saint Alphonsus Liguori: Urged daily prayer and examination of conscience to prepare for eternity. Reflect on their wisdom and ask for their intercession during Advent. 4. How to Prepare During Advent: A Guide Here’s a roadmap for living Advent intentionally: A. Daily Practices Prayer: Dedicate time each day to speak with God. Use Advent-specific prayers (see below). Scripture: Reflect on the Advent readings, especially from Isaiah and the Gospels. Silence: Create moments of quiet to listen to God’s voice. B. Acts of Repentance Confession: Make a good examination of conscience and receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Fasting: Offer small sacrifices to purify your heart and align it with Christ. C. Works of Mercy Corporal Works: Feed the hungry, visit the lonely, donate to those in need. Spiritual Works: Encourage the doubtful, pray for the living and the dead, forgive offenses. D. Family and Community Traditions Advent Wreath: Light the candles and pray as a family each week. Jesse Tree: Decorate a tree with symbols from salvation history. Service Projects: Volunteer as a family to spread the love of Christ. 5. Powerful Advent Prayers A. Prayer for the First Week of Advent Heavenly Father, stir up Your power and come. Let Your light dispel the darkness in our hearts. As we await the coming of Your Son, may we prepare with joy and hope. Amen. B. Prayer to Be Ready for Christ’s Return Lord Jesus, awaken in me a longing for Your return. Help me to live each day as if it were my last, with faith, love, and joy. Come, Lord Jesus, and renew the face of the earth. Amen. C. Marian Advent Prayer O Blessed Virgin Mary, you awaited the birth of your Son with perfect faith. Teach us to wait with patience and trust, and intercede for us as we prepare to welcome Christ into our hearts and homes. Amen. 6. Signs of Hope in Troubled Times Advent reminds us that no matter how dark the world seems, God’s light is stronger. The Incarnation is proof that God is with us—Emmanuel. The end times aren’t about fear; they’re about the fulfillment of God’s promises. As Saint John Paul II said, “We are the Easter people, and Hallelujah is our song!” Advent invites us to carry this hope into the world, especially in moments of trial. 7. A Checklist for Advent Readiness Here’s a quick checklist to keep you on track: Have I set aside daily time for prayer and reflection? Have I gone to Confession to prepare my heart? Am I making small sacrifices to grow in virtue? Am I reaching out to those in need? Am I sharing the message of hope with others? Conclusion: Advent Is the Season of Hope Advent isn’t just a tradition; it’s a mission. It’s a call to prepare our hearts, not just for Christmas Day, but for eternity. Whether Christ returns tomorrow or centuries from now, we are called to live with joyful anticipation. As we light the candles of the Advent wreath, may our hearts burn with the desire to welcome Jesus, now and forever. Come, Lord Jesus, and may we be ready when You come again in glory.

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Chaplet, Novena, Prayer to Our Lady of Mercy

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Chaplet to Our Lady of Mercy                 (consists of three decades) In the beginning: Hail, holy Queen, Mother of Mercy; our life, our sweetness and our hope! To you do we cry, poor banished children of Eve. To you do we send our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn, then, most gracious advocate, your eyes of mercy toward us; and after this, our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of your womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary. On the large beads: Mary, Mother of Grace and Mother of Mercy, protect us from our enemies and receive us at the hour of death. On the small beads: Mary, Mother of Mercy, obtain mercy for us from your Son (10x). In conclusion: Concluding Prayer You open your arms wide before us, Most Merciful Mother, and extend your hands filled with every grace and gift. Your motherly heart longs to bestow on us everything that we need. Encouraged by your goodness, we turn to you with confidence. Obtain for us, Mother, all that we need. But above all, by your powerful intercession to help us guard our purity and intercession, grant that we guard our chastity and innocence; that we faithfully and perseveringly nurture a childlike love toward you; and that we bear in our heart the image of your Son’s Heart. May that Heart protect us, guide us, and lead us to everlasting light. Amen. Below is one prayer, from a Novena to Our Lady of Mercy (Ransom), that can help form our thoughts and reassure us of God’s goodness. Mary, Mother of God, I turn to you in all my pressing needs and difficulties as to a most sure refuge. I implore the help of your protection and choose you as my advocate. I entrust my cause to you who are the Mother of Mercy, and I wish to offer you day by day my most reverent love. But that my devotion may be pleasing to you, help me to maintain my soul and body in the spotlessness of your purity, help me to try as best I can to walk in your footsteps, humbly seeking to be like you. Even if I have committed all possible sins, let me never lose confidence in you, for I know I shall always find your Heart filled with mercy The Son of God has His justice, but you, the Mother, have only your mercy. You desire more to do good to me than I can desire to receive favors from you, for your Heart is all love and mercy. Mary, My Mother, how shall I stand before my Judge at the day of judgment? How shall I answer for the wasted days and years which God has given me to serve Him alone? I look to you, Mother of Mercy. You are all-merciful that you may obtain for me pardon and mercy. You are kind and loving for you have a mother’s heart, full of pity for the erring. You are a Mother of Mercy to the sinner and the fallen; have pity on me! Download Novena below! Powered By EmbedPress

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I met a miracle : the story of John Traynor, miraculously cured at Lourdes

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The Astonishing Miracle of John Traynor: From Broken Veteran to Lourdes Pilgrim On September 10, 1937, Reverend Patrick O’Connor, a missionary of St. Columban, found himself face-to-face with a miracle in the bustling railway station of a French town. That miracle had a name—John Traynor. Towering at five feet ten, with a strong ruddy face and a burly frame, Traynor’s presence stood out. Yet, his mere ability to stand and move, let alone his robust health, was nothing short of miraculous. Years earlier, medical science had written him off as an incurable wreck, destined to remain paralyzed, epileptic, and riddled with unhealing wounds. But by God’s grace, through the intercession of Our Lady of Lourdes, John Traynor defied the laws of nature. His story, painstakingly verified by newspaper accounts, official medical reports, and eyewitness testimonies, is a testament to faith, perseverance, and the miraculous power of Lourdes. John Traynor’s Early Life and Military Service Born in Liverpool to Irish parents, John Traynor grew up in a home steeped in Catholic faith. His mother, a devout daily communicant, left him a legacy of deep devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary. When World War I erupted in 1914, Traynor was mobilized with the Royal Naval Reserve. During the ill-fated Antwerp expedition, he was severely injured, suffering a head wound from shrapnel. Although he miraculously recovered and returned to duty, his service took him to Gallipoli in 1915, where his life would change forever. At Gallipoli, Traynor faced one of the deadliest battles of the war. Leading men through relentless gunfire, he was struck by machine-gun bullets that wounded his chest, head, and right arm. Despite the bravery that earned him the respect of his comrades, these injuries left him permanently disabled. His right arm was paralyzed, his legs partly immobile, and his skull bore a gaping hole where shrapnel had damaged his brain. Frequent epileptic fits compounded his suffering. By 1923, eight years after Gallipoli, he was declared incurably incapacitated by no less than ten doctors. A Pilgrimage of Faith In July 1923, news of a diocesan pilgrimage to Lourdes reached Traynor. Despite his critical condition, he resolved to make the journey, trusting in the Blessed Virgin’s intercession. His decision faced stiff resistance. Doctors warned he would likely die en route, and even the priest organizing the pilgrimage begged him to reconsider. Traynor, however, remained steadfast. “If I die, I’ll die in a good cause,” he said. With the help of neighbors, Traynor scraped together the funds for the trip, even pawning his wife’s few pieces of jewelry. Against all odds, and amid protests from family, friends, and doctors, he embarked on the arduous journey to Lourdes. The pilgrimage itself was grueling. Traynor, severely weakened, suffered multiple epileptic fits and hemorrhages along the way. At several points, attendants feared he wouldn’t survive the journey. Upon arrival in Lourdes, his condition remained critical. Yet, despite the odds, Traynor insisted on participating in all devotions, including being bathed in the waters of the Grotto spring. The Miracle at Lourdes On July 25, 1923, Traynor was wheeled to the baths for what seemed to be his final attempt at healing. His legs, long paralyzed, suddenly began to move violently. Those attending him feared another epileptic seizure. When he was placed in the bath, Traynor experienced a surge of strength. Later that day, during the Blessed Sacrament procession, Archbishop of Rheims blessed him with the monstrance. At that moment, Traynor realized something extraordinary. His right arm, paralyzed since 1915, began to move. The atrophied muscles regained life, and he was able to make the sign of the cross for the first time in years. He stood up, walked unaided, and felt his body restored. His wounds healed, his strength returned, and the epileptic fits ceased completely. The paralytic, the man declared incurable by doctors, was whole again. Medical Verification and the Testimony of Faith Traynor’s healing wasn’t just a matter of personal testimony. His case was thoroughly examined by six doctors, including specialists from England, France, and Belgium. Their official report confirmed the permanence of his cure. The Catholic Medical Bureau in Lourdes declared it a genuine miracle, attributing his recovery to divine intervention through the intercession of Our Lady. What makes Traynor’s story even more compelling is his character. Far from seeking fame, he remained humble, deeply devoted to his faith, and committed to living as a fearless Catholic. His miraculous healing inspired countless others, becoming a beacon of hope for those who suffer and a testament to the power of prayer. Legacy of a Miracle John Traynor’s journey from a broken veteran to a living miracle is a story of unwavering faith and God’s boundless mercy. It reminds us of the Blessed Virgin Mary’s loving intercession and the grace available through the sacraments and devotions of the Church. Today, Traynor’s story continues to inspire Catholics worldwide, a powerful reminder that no matter how dire our circumstances, God’s healing hand can work wonders when we trust in Him. As the Reverend Patrick O’Connor, who documented Traynor’s story, aptly said: “It was a grace to hear and a duty to recall.” Indeed, the miracle of John Traynor remains a profound testament to the enduring power of faith.  

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A Visit from St. Nicholas | Twas the night before Christmas

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‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the houseNot a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there; The children were nestled all snug in their beds;While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap, When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,I sprang from my bed to see what was the matter.Away to the window I flew like a flash,Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash. The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow,Gave a lustre of midday to objects below,When what to my wondering eyes did appear,But a miniature sleigh and eight tiny rein-deer, With a little old driver so lively and quick,I knew in a moment he must be St. Nick.More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name: “Now, Dasher! now, Dancer! now Prancer and Vixen!On, Comet! on, Cupid! on, Donder and Blitzen!To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!” As leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky;So up to the housetop the coursers they flewWith the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas too— And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roofThe prancing and pawing of each little hoof.As I drew in my head, and was turning around,Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound. He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot;A bundle of toys he had flung on his back,And he looked like a pedler just opening his pack. His eyes—how they twinkled! his dimples, how merry!His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,And the beard on his chin was as white as the snow; The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,And the smoke, it encircled his head like a wreath;He had a broad face and a little round bellyThat shook when he laughed, like a bowl full of jelly. He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself;A wink of his eye and a twist of his headSoon gave me to know I had nothing to dread; He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk,And laying his finger aside of his nose,And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose; He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.But I heard him exclaim, ere he drove out of sight—“Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night!”

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What is LAS POSADAS? How to Celebrate?

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LAS POSADAS is an Advent devotion common among Mexican and Latino Christians. Although customs vary, generally on each of the nine evenings before Christmas Eve members of local families gather together, sing traditional villancicos (Spanish Christmas hymns), and are lead by two members dressed as Mary and Joseph to designated homes (“inns”) where they seek shelter as the original holy couple did on their arrival in Bethlehem 2,000 years ago. In some cases, they are turned away several times each night before they are finally welcomed at one home, where the community enters for prayer and a celebration.    The name “posadas” derives from a Spanish word for lodging; it reminds us not only of Mary and Joseph’s search for lodging, but also of Jesus’ desire to enter into our lives today. The devotion has its roots in religious plays common in Europe during the Middle Ages; it has been popular in Mexico for at least 400 years and is believed to have been introduced to the indigenous population by Franciscan missionaries from Spain. The devotion is widespread among both Catholic and Protestant communities in Mexico and Latin America and among Hispanic immigrants in the United States.  History of Las Posadas Now a widely-celebrated tradition throughout Latin America, there is evidence that Las Posadas originated in colonial Mexico. The Augustinian friars of San Agustin de Acolman, near Mexico City, are believed to have organized the first posadas. In 1586, Friar Diego de Soria, the Augustinian prior, obtained a papal bull from Pope Sixtus V to celebrate what was called ‘Misas de Aguinaldo’ or ‘Christmas bonus masses’ between December 16 and 24.The tradition seems to be one of many examples of how the Catholic religion in Mexico was adapted to make it easier for the indigenous people to understand and blend with their earlier beliefs. The Aztecs had a tradition of honoring their god Huitzilopochtli at the same time of year, coinciding with the winter solstice. The Posada celebrations were originally held in the church but the custom spread. Later it was celebrated in haciendas, and then in family homes, gradually taking the form of the celebration as it is now practiced by the time of the 19th century. Now, neighborhood committees often organize the posadas and a different family will offer to host the celebration each night. The other people in the neighborhood bring food, candy, and piñatas so that the costs of the party don’t fall only on the host family. Adults, including musicians, follow the procession, which visits selected homes and asks for lodging for Joseph and Mary. Traditionally, the procession is always refused lodging, though the hosts often provide refreshments. At each stop, passages of scripture are read and Christmas carols are sung. Mass is held each day after the procession and, after the service, children break open piñatas filled with candy, toys, and occasionally money. The piñatas are usually crafted in the form of a star, which is said to have guided the three wise men of Biblical tradition to the newborn Jesus.   How To Celebrate Las Posadas Make star-shaped piñatas Las Posadas is a great event that can be celebrated by adults and children alike! One of the most exciting elements of Las Posadas is the star-shaped piñatas filled with candy and toys. Children often take turns to put on a blindfold and hit the piñata with a stick and once it breaks everyone will rush in to grab a handful of tasty treats. But you don’t have to be a child to hit the piñata, fill one for yourself and try it with family and friends who are Mexican or Catholic. Attend a procession Before each gathering, all the guests form a procession to mark Mary and Joseph’s search for an inn on the night of Jesus’s birth. The march is usually led by an angel, guiding Mary and Joseph to shelter, when they could not find one in Bethlehem. The participants will first hold candles and sing Christmas carols, and make their way to a particular home. A special song ‘La Canción Para Pedir Posada’ is sung, until the host agrees to let everyone inside. It’s a time of celebration but also a remembrance of Mary and Joseph’s miraculous journey. Reflect and meditate On each of the nine nights, a different quality will be meditated upon — humility, strength, detachment, charity, trust, justice, purity, joy, and generosity. Before indulging in delicious food and beverages such as tamales and ‘ponche’ or ‘atole,’ consider reflecting upon important spiritual qualities that help us become better humans, no matter what you believe in. 5 Amazing Facts About Las Posadas The seven deadly sins The star-shaped piñata children break apart has seven points that are meant to symbolize the seven deadly sins. Rewards from heaven The treats released from inside the piñata symbolize rewards from heaven, which are shared among guests in packages called ‘aguinaldos.’ Staying warm and cozy To stay warm, guests are served ‘ponche’, an aromatic fruit punch that includes piloncillo, water, cinnamon, and fruits such as guavas, tejocotes, and oranges. Mary’s birth symbolized The ‘Novena’ — the nine days of Las Posadas — signifies the nine months Mary carried Jesus in her womb. Songs of devotion The songs that are sung at each home form a dialogue between the ‘Fuera,’ sung by the pilgrims, and ‘Dentro,’ sung by those playing the innkeepers.     Read more…

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15 Days Until Christmas! PRINTABLE Short Advent Daily Meditations for Your Journey (10 Dec 2024 – 25 Dec 2024)

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Powered By EmbedPress The Advent season is a time of preparation, reflection, and anticipation for the coming of Jesus Christ. Below are daily meditations, incorporating the Saint of the Day, Bible readings, reflections, saintly quotes, and prayers. 10 December 2024: Trust in God’s Plan Saint of the Day: St. John Roberts, MartyrBible Reading: Isaiah 40:1-11“Comfort, comfort my people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem.” Meditation: Advent reminds us of God’s unwavering love and faithfulness. St. John Roberts, who remained steadfast in his faith during persecution, inspires us to trust in God’s plan even in trials. Saint Quote: “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?” – Psalm 27:1 Prayer: Lord, help us trust Your plans even when we do not understand them. Give us the courage of St. John Roberts to remain faithful to You. Amen. 11 December 2024: Prepare the Way Saint of the Day: St. Damasus I, PopeBible Reading: Matthew 11:28-30“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Meditation: St. Damasus worked tirelessly to unite the Church. During Advent, we too are called to reconcile and prepare our hearts for Christ. Saint Quote: “Let us not labor for riches that perish but for that treasure which lasts forever.” – St. Damasus I Prayer: Jesus, You invite us to find rest in You. Grant us the grace to turn away from distractions and focus on preparing a dwelling place for You in our hearts. Amen. 12 December 2024: A Mother’s Love Saint of the Day: Our Lady of GuadalupeBible Reading: Luke 1:46-55“My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.” Meditation: The apparition of Our Lady of Guadalupe reveals Mary’s maternal care for all. Her message reminds us to trust in her intercession and embrace her Son with joy. Saint Quote: “Am I not here, I who am your mother?” – Our Lady of Guadalupe Prayer: Blessed Mother, guide us to Your Son. Help us live with humility and love, echoing your “yes” to God. Amen. 13 December 2024: The Light of Hope Saint of the Day: St. Lucy, Virgin and MartyrBible Reading: John 8:12“I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” Meditation: St. Lucy, whose name means “light,” reminds us that Christ’s light overcomes all darkness. Let us be bearers of this light to others. Saint Quote: “If you are what you should be, you will set the whole world on fire.” – St. Catherine of Siena Prayer: Lord, dispel the darkness of our hearts and fill us with the light of Your presence. Amen. 14 December 2024: God’s Peace Saint of the Day: St. John of the Cross, Priest and Doctor of the ChurchBible Reading: Philippians 4:6-7“Do not be anxious about anything… and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts.” Meditation: St. John of the Cross teaches us that true peace comes from surrendering to God’s will. As we journey through Advent, may we seek His peace in silence and prayer. Saint Quote: “In the evening of life, we will be judged on love alone.” – St. John of the Cross Prayer: God of peace, calm our restless hearts and help us rest in Your love. Amen. 15 December 2024: Rejoice Always Gaudete SundayBible Reading: 1 Thessalonians 5:16-24“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances.” Meditation: The pink candle of Advent symbolizes joy. Today, let us rejoice in the Lord’s coming and share this joy with others. Saint Quote: “Joy is a net of love by which you can catch souls.” – St. Teresa of Calcutta Prayer: Lord, fill our hearts with joy as we anticipate Your coming. Help us to spread this joy to all we meet. Amen. 16 December 2024: The Lord is Near Saint of the Day: St. Adelaide, EmpressBible Reading: Psalm 85:9-10“Surely His salvation is near to those who fear Him.” Meditation: St. Adelaide’s life of charity and faithfulness to God reminds us to serve others as a preparation for Christ’s coming. Saint Quote: “Charity is the root of all good works.” – St. Adelaide Prayer: Lord, make us instruments of Your love. Prepare our hearts to welcome You. Amen. 17 December 2024: O Wisdom O Antiphons BeginBible Reading: Isaiah 11:2-3“The Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him: the spirit of wisdom and understanding.” Meditation: The first O Antiphon calls upon Christ as Wisdom. May we seek His guidance in all we do. Saint Quote: “Christ is the power of God and the wisdom of God.” – 1 Corinthians 1:24 Prayer: Come, O Wisdom, and teach us to walk in Your ways. Amen.   18–24 December 2024: Daily Reflections on the O Antiphons The “O Antiphons” are ancient titles for Christ, each drawn from biblical prophecy, sung in the days leading to Christmas. These antiphons encapsulate the longing for the Messiah and invite us to reflect on His divine attributes. 18 December 2024: O Wisdom (O Sapientia) “O Wisdom, who came forth from the mouth of the Most High, reaching from end to end mightily and sweetly ordering all things: come and teach us the way of prudence.” Bible Reading: Wisdom 7:25-26“For she is the breath of the power of God, and a pure emanation of the glory of the Almighty.” Meditation: Jesus, the eternal Wisdom, orders all creation with love and guides us in truth. Seek His wisdom in prayer and decision-making, trusting that His plans are perfect. Prayer: O Wisdom of God, enlighten our hearts and guide us in the way of righteousness. Amen. 19 December 2024: O Lord of Might (O Adonai) “O Adonai and Leader of the house of Israel, who appeared to Moses in the burning bush and gave him the Law on Sinai: come to redeem us with outstretched arms.” Bible Reading: Exodus 6:6“I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and with mighty acts of judgment.”…

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The Miracles of Saint Nicholas: A Testimony of Faith and Compassion

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Saint Nicholas of Myra, beloved bishop and wonderworker of the early Church, is celebrated not only for his profound acts of generosity but also for the miracles that attest to his sanctity. Known as a defender of the poor, protector of the innocent, and intercessor for the faithful, his life and deeds have inspired countless generations. Below, we delve deeper into some of the most remarkable miracles attributed to this holy man, accompanied by prayers and reflections to honor his memory. The Miracle of the Dowry In the ancient city of Patara, where Nicholas was born, there lived a once-wealthy man who had fallen into poverty. Unable to provide dowries for his three daughters, the man despaired, fearing they would be forced into servitude or worse. Learning of their plight, Nicholas resolved to help without drawing attention to himself. Under the cover of night, he secretly tossed a bag of gold through their window—enough for the eldest daughter’s dowry. On subsequent nights, he repeated the act for the second and third daughters. This miracle exemplifies Saint Nicholas’s humility and his dedication to aiding those in need. It also serves as the foundation for the tradition of secret gift-giving in his honor. Prayer: O holy Nicholas, patron of the poor and defender of the downtrodden, teach us to give with a generous and humble heart. May we, through your intercession, find joy in aiding others and spreading God’s love. The Calming of the Storm As the patron saint of sailors, Saint Nicholas is credited with numerous miracles at sea. One of the most famous occurred when sailors caught in a terrible storm invoked his name, praying for deliverance. Nicholas appeared to them, either in a vision or in person, and calmed the raging seas, guiding their ship safely to port. This miracle reflects not only his power as an intercessor but also the trust the faithful place in him as a protector. Prayer: Holy Father Nicholas, protector of those who traverse the waters, calm the storms of our lives as you did the seas. Guide us safely through the tempests of this world to the eternal harbor of Christ’s love. The Resurrection of the Innocent One of the more harrowing tales associated with Saint Nicholas involves his miraculous intervention in the case of three children who had been murdered by a wicked innkeeper. According to tradition, the man had killed the children and preserved their remains in barrels of brine. Nicholas, guided by divine insight, exposed the crime and prayed over the children, restoring them to life. This miracle solidified his reputation as a guardian of children and protector of innocence, themes that resonate deeply in his veneration. Prayer: Blessed Nicholas, champion of the innocent, guard the hearts of all children and deliver them from harm. Through your prayers, may justice and mercy prevail in our lives. The Miracle of the Grain During a severe famine in Myra, Saint Nicholas interceded on behalf of his starving flock. He approached sailors docked in the city’s harbor, who were transporting grain to the Emperor in Constantinople. Though they initially refused his request, fearing imperial punishment, Nicholas assured them that their cargo would remain intact. Remarkably, after sharing their grain with the townspeople, the sailors discovered that their shipment was undiminished. This miracle not only reveals Saint Nicholas’s compassion but also his ability to inspire faith and courage in others. Prayer: Saint Nicholas, provider for the hungry and advocate for the poor, help us to trust in God’s providence. May we, like you, be instruments of His abundance. The Legacy of Intercession Beyond these well-known miracles, Saint Nicholas’s intercessions have been invoked for countless other needs. Pilgrims visiting his relics in Bari, Italy, often report miraculous healings and spiritual renewal. His incorrupt relics exude a fragrant myrrh, known as “Manna of Saint Nicholas,” believed to have healing properties. Such wonders remind the faithful of his continued presence and advocacy in the heavenly court. Liturgical Hymn (Troparion): The truth of things hath revealed thee to thy flock as a rule of faith, a model of meekness, and a teacher of temperance; for this cause thou hast achieved the heights by humility, riches by poverty. O Father Nicholas, intercede with Christ God that our souls may be saved. Reflections on the Life of Saint Nicholas The miracles of Saint Nicholas, deeply rooted in acts of compassion and justice, offer timeless lessons. His life encourages us to: Embrace Humility: Like Nicholas, we are called to serve others without seeking recognition. Act with Courage: Whether calming storms or confronting wrongdoing, Nicholas showed that faith emboldens us to act righteously. Trust in Divine Providence: The miracle of the grain reminds us that God provides for all needs when we act in faith. Closing Prayer O glorious Saint Nicholas, faithful servant of Christ and fervent intercessor, we turn to you in prayer. Inspire us to live lives of charity and faith, as you did. Be our advocate before the throne of God, that we may one day rejoice with you in His eternal kingdom. Amen.  

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